In life there are ups and downs, many are the times we are faced with the real effect of a simple misunderstanding and solving it becomes hard and at the end, a solution should be found or it erupts and affects everyone both involved and not involved. As much as we may shy away from it or pretend all is well, we become victims of our fears and eventually we become patients to stress and fatigue. Its can take 3 years to build a building, which has a strong foundation, but just one blast from a bomb or air crash can cause the stones to fall down in pieces.
The heart is a small unit in our bodies that controls all the functions in our bodies. When someone wrongs you, it’s normal to feel hurt and want to fight back but instead we withhold all the pain and eventually we become so bitter that we can’t see the good of someone but plan to pay back so that we can become even. Planning is an investment, if you plan to revenge the rewards is sorrow and misery and that is the NAKED TRUTH that whether you love it or not you just have to either forgive because it will haunt you.
Pain means a physical or emotional effect of a scar caused by suffering or illness. The issue brought by pain is the act of keeping issues in our hearts and pretending all is well. Bitterness is resentment (a feeling of deep and bitter anger and ill-will.) and the results is heart issues, ulcers, revenge and so much more that only harms our tender hearts. When you carry someone or when you are bitter with anyone you become a victim of misery and no matter how much you keep smiling, the truth is that you have unresolved issues which MUST be attended to. When you start a bonfire and you forget to light it off, it spreads and burns anything that is ahead and eventually it destroys a lot of property, hence it leaves nothing, the same way it was.
Anger can never resolve anything but cause damage and destruction just like uncontrolled fire which spreads and leaves nothing well but destroyed. As many people wrong you in life is better to admit to yourself that you are hurting and then you peacefully resolve the issue but don’t procrastinate issues because the results are always bad and worst case scenario it may cause a never ending pain and revenge, when simply taking and overlooking all the good and covering it with anger. The Naked Truth of life is that many times life won’t be about smiling and having jovial days but sometimes it will be a dark cloud with no hope but a wall ahead, people will always hurt us because they are humans. Humans aren’t perfect so don’t always expect them to understand you but learn life is about taking it as it comes.
Learn to let go or forgive and moving on but don’t always want to get even with anyone. The more your are bitter the more you are taken back 10 steps back and that will affect you always. It’s not an option to forgive, JUST FORGIVE!!!!!